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25 Responses to “WHY MEN FEAR DATING “BIG GIRLS” -GURLTALKKTV”
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
Then he don’t deserve her FAT ass anyways! It’s whats on the inside that counts…..I feel sorry for you so called MEN who don’t know what a REAL woman is if it smacked you in the face.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
Like I already said, I am a thick chic & proud of it.. I am beautiful on the inside and out. You’re little comments will NOT make, nor break me baby! Try to learn to love yourself.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
My guess is that you’re fat.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
Yeah, not to mention the court system that ruins a man financially when he decides he wants a normal sized woman and cheats on his fat ass wife. In other countries where women can’t get away with this crap, they stay in shape.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
I have been larger and smaller. There must be a physical attraction of course, but men who LOOK DOWN on bigger woman are missing the real women, we treat you good, give you honesty and love and we aren’t shallow so being a size 13 for me is awesome because large or small I am for sure a cutie. I am happy with me and so is my man and he is skinny and way big (if you get my drift) so big woman don’t you dare settle!!!!
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
ok what if the weight is an issue – but on the opposite side. i mean – what if a fat girl (yes, let us leave political correctness), what if a FAT girl dates a guy and it appears that he is attracted to her only because of her weight – only because she is fat. what if she starts losing weight and he dont tolerate that??
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
@esquire805 no one asked yo ass
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
im skinny no biggies 4 me
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
you’re making a generalization with absolutely no backup.
i am a bigger girl i exercise 3-5x a week around my busy school schedule and i am a vegetarian and have been for seven years.
please dont make assumptions. you make yourself look like an ass. just sayin.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
You’re welcome and I pray that Mr. Right comes along soon cause he will. There is somebody for everybody ? Some men like BBW anyways & ain’t shy about it. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Don’t worry about the ones that rejected you, they weren’t meant for you. God has somebody tailor-made just for you ?
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
You must be living in an area where more big girls are not divas like I am. Independent, beautiful women who don’t consider their weight to be a flaw. I know I don’t at all, it doesn’t affect me or my radiance. Good men have been turned into wimps worrying about what friends and family think. Assholes who approach, find out quick that I ain’t easy at all. I know many skinny girls who are the nastiest, laziest, gold digging bitches on the planet. Just becuz ur skinny, doesn’t make you cute.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
As a BBW black woman, I am shocked that someone actually admitted to this. Several times, I have been admired from afar by good men who dare not approach because their “homies” will make fun of them and families will think they’re desperate. It is frustrating and it’s why I’ve been single. I’m not ugly, I’m not sloppy, and I’m a virgin by choice. The ones I don’t want just think I’m easy. Thanx 4 that.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
Man I think women use the term thick cause its seems more acceptable and less degrading than fat. If your stomach sticks out further than waist then you are fat both men and women…unless the woman is pregnant of course
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
Ok i felt this video could have been a little more in depth but I am an individual that will not date a big girl. It’s my preference and we all have preferences. I’m an individual that enjoys working out and living a healthy lifestyle and most women that are overweight despise that.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
I have a friend/co-woker who is a big woman. She has a very low self esteem and whenever men approach/ pursue her she begins to bash herself I guess to beat him to the punch. Weight shouldn’t be an issue if a man approaches you as is big woman. I get so frustrated with the big girl thing. If it isn’t your preference keep it moving. I use to date a guy who was missing his front tooth (i gave him a chance) and he always clowned big girls like he had it together. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
Some guys really want to date one BUT are too scared of what their “friends” and family will think. I knew a guy that told me that he had a crush on a cute Thick -ssiter from work. He was scared to pursue it. I told him he was gonna miss out worrying what someone else thinks ? A women with a smaller size is not immune to gaining weight anyways. Ask me how I know ? (LOL)
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
I actually agree with you 100% HotShot5494! It’s not all big girls, but most that I have met act like complete whores & Pigs.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
now adays its abt looks and how do u gett over ur self being big? howdo u make others love the way u look whn u r big?
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
You disagree are you crazy? When i said hot girls i didn’t mean hoars or sluts. Cute girls will have better personalities because they know they look good and they wont always be worried about it. Fat girls on the other hand are pigs they are trashy sluts to make up for their fat.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
I disagree! the hot sexy girls are the ones with the worst personalities and the nastiest attitudes, and also,the hot sexy girls are the ones that want men to take them out on endless shopping sprees, making them look even sexier, while the guy is going broke spending all his money on her.
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
You are 14 and SHOULDN’T be having SEX !!!
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
lol keep thinking that
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
I’m 14 5′3 185lbs and I love my but and my fat I’ve never felt self concious except for during sex I can’t show my stomach to any man does anybody have any advice other than I’m 14 and shouldn’t be having sex?PLEASE
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
lol whoever thumb’d me down must b fat
February 9th, 2010 2:11 pm
This question and your reasons you have given are handled very maturely and honestly. When ever I’m dealing with a man I always make sure to ask if they have no problems and that they can tell as best as I can make it known that they can tell how big of a girl I am.
I recently had an experience with someone who assured me he was comfortable with it but when it came right down to it, he could not perform. Sad and a huge waste of his and my time.